Southend Cocktail BarsThe ultimate guide๐Ÿšถ Cocktail trails

Date night cocktail bars in Southend

Low light, good drinks and room to talk. These Southend bars suit a date.

Last checked 11 November 2026. No bar paid to be included.

Date night: 6 bars

Swipe to see all 6 bars โ†’

Bocca, Southend
Photo: Mrs. Mariane Costa on Google Maps
1 ยท Leigh-on-Sea

Bocca

Italian restaurant and cocktail bar

A cocktail bar and Italian restaurant on Leigh Broadway with classics from an espresso martini to a Manhattan. Open Wednesday to Sunday.

  • ๐Ÿธ Classics
  • ๐Ÿฝ๏ธ Food
  • ๐ŸŒ™ Late
  • ๐Ÿ’• Date night

๐Ÿ“ 41 Broadway, Leigh-on-Sea SS9 1PA

Skylah's Bar, Southend
Photo: Charley Costello on Google Maps
2 ยท Southend town centre

Skylah's Bar

Cocktail bar and restaurant

A stylish cocktail bar on Southchurch Road with bold drinks, food and bottomless brunch.

  • ๐Ÿฝ๏ธ Food
  • ๐ŸŽ‰ Groups
  • ๐Ÿ’• Date night

๐Ÿ“ 6-8 Southchurch Rd, Southend-on-Sea SS1 2NE

Magic Monkey, Southend
Photo: Magic Monkey on Google Maps
3 ยท Leigh-on-Sea

Magic Monkey

Cocktail bar and small plates restaurant

A cosy, tropical-feeling bar and restaurant on Leigh Broadway with classic and inventive cocktails and Caribbean and Mediterranean small plates.

  • โœจ Quirky
  • ๐Ÿฝ๏ธ Food
  • ๐Ÿท Wine
  • ๐Ÿ’• Date night

๐Ÿ“ 119 Broadway, Leigh-on-Sea SS9 1PG

The Seven Hotel Lobby Bar, Southend
Photo: Seven Hotel on Google Maps
4 ยท The seafront

The Seven Hotel Lobby Bar

Hotel bar

The lobby bar at The Seven Hotel on Clifton Terrace, with cocktails from a strawberry mai tai to a mint chocolate grasshopper.

  • ๐Ÿฝ๏ธ Food
  • ๐Ÿน Rum
  • ๐Ÿท Wine
  • ๐Ÿ’• Date night

๐Ÿ“ 7 Clifton Terrace, Southend-on-Sea SS1 1DT

San Fairie Ann, Southend
Photo: Ian G on Google Maps
5 ยท Southend town centre

San Fairie Ann

Restaurant and cocktail bar

A restaurant and cocktail bar on Alexandra Street for fine dining with drinks before or after.

  • ๐Ÿฝ๏ธ Food
  • ๐Ÿ’• Date night
  • ๐Ÿธ Classics

๐Ÿ“ 43 Alexandra St, Southend-on-Sea SS1 1BW

The Mews, Southend
Photo: The Mews on Google Maps
6 ยท Southend town centre

The Mews

Restaurant and cocktail bar

A small bar and restaurant in Nelson Mews with exposed brick, leather sofas, cocktails and mocktails.

  • ๐Ÿฝ๏ธ Food
  • ๐Ÿน Low and no
  • ๐Ÿ’• Date night

๐Ÿ“ 2 Nelson Mews, Southend-on-Sea SS1 1AL

Map: date night

Tap a pin for the bar. Numbers match the list.

Your questions

What are the best date night bars in Southend?

Start with Bocca, Skylah's Bar, Magic Monkey, The Seven Hotel Lobby Bar and San Fairie Ann. Our full list has 6 bars.

More Southend bar guides

Who wrote this guide

This guide is written by the team at M.AD Agency. We run cocktail festivals in more than 20 towns and cities across the UK and Ireland and have worked with hundreds of bars since 2022. We love Southend's bars, so we put this guide together from our own research and trusted local guides.

No bar paid to be included and nobody can buy a place. We check the guide regularly as bars open, change and close.

Our nearest cocktail festivals to Southend

Want your bar in this guide?

Run a cocktail bar in Southend that should be here? Get in touch at alice@m-ad.co.uk and tell us about it.